Blue Iguana,
Good news. You are not alone. So many have started where you are and overcame the hurdles to be very successful.
So many more questions come to mind but we will first touch on a couple.
If it can be said every business includes aspects of People, Purpose and Profit:
1. What is your vision / purpose?
2. What is your breakeven?
3. How do you evaluate your success each day/week/month?
1. Vision / Purpose
i.e. A Mexican theme restaurant with the focus on improviing the quality of life for families?
Your vision/purpose drives all of your decisions and is your identity.
i.e. Promote sports activities
You can't be everything to everyone and for the locals, being more than just an eating place is important.
2. Breakeven?
If you need a breakeven spreadsheet, go here:
Rejuvenate Your Restaurant - Restaurant Forms. It is free for now... You can change the costs and watch how it changes your sales automatically.
This becomes a good tool to create marketing plans as well.
3. Evaluate Success
If you need an evaluation tool, go here:
Rejuvenate Your Restaurant - Restaurant Forms. Click on weekly snapshot. It is free for now... It is designed for a pizza restaurant with delivery but applies to any operation.
Evaluate your with measures of success. Have a target then keep score.
For books, hire a local part time book keeper.
As to your own knowledge / skill base, you can easily fix this. There are many links about a variety of topics on my website (right panel).
Rejuvenate Your Restaurant - Restaurant Guerrilla Marketing I use Delicious as my method to keep resources handy. This allows me to access even if on others computers.
In the end you will:
Know your vision, know your breakeven, create a plan (week/month/year), communicate the plan to your team, execute for 100% smiles, control your costs to plan, measure results (day/week/month/year), celebrate your successes.
Hire a pro?
Digital photos, menu, video are all good things to have handy. You can send these to a pro and get you started with phone, email and there are other online tools where you can connect via the internet.
A pro will ask you a series of questions...
and if you have the breakeven completed along with a "snapshot", you will save time and money for both of you. So much can be done from afar now... You would be surprised what can be done from 1,000 miles away.
Hope this helps.
To your success.
Mike